Marriage Mentoring

Getting married is exciting — and worth preparing for intentionally. Marriage Mentoring helps engaged and seriously dating couples build a strong foundation for a healthy, lasting marriage.

Prepare for More Than the Wedding

There’s a lot to plan when you’re getting married. Planning the wedding matters, but preparing for the marriage matters more.

At Echo, we want to help couples enter marriage with clarity, confidence, and a strong foundation. Marriage Mentoring gives you space to have important conversations, understand each other more deeply, and develop practical tools that will serve you long after the wedding day.

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What Is Marriage Mentoring?

Marriage Mentoring is our premarital preparation process for couples who are engaged or moving toward engagement.

You’ll be matched with a trained mentor couple who will guide you through meaningful conversations about your relationship, your future, and the kind of marriage you want to build.

Together, you’ll explore areas like:

Communication
Conflict
Finances
Family backgrounds
Expectations
Personalities & habits
Intimacy
Faith & spiritual life
Roles, priorities, & your future together

The goal isn’t to have every answer before you get married. It's to help you understand one another more deeply, talk honestly about important areas, and begin your marriage with healthy tools and shared expectations.

What Marriage Mentoring Is Not

Marriage Mentoring is not professional therapy or clinical counseling.
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Our mentors are trained leaders who can listen, encourage, ask good questions, and help guide important conversations. If deeper emotional, mental health, trauma, addiction, abuse, or other complex issues surface during the process, they may recommend connecting with a licensed professional counselor for additional support.

The Curriculum: PREPARE/ENRICH

Our Marriage Mentoring process uses PREPARE/ENRICH, a widely used relationship assessment designed to help couples understand their strengths and identify areas for growth.

Each of you will complete an online assessment before meeting with your mentor. Your results help guide personalized conversations around topics that matter most as you prepare for marriage.

The assessment is not a test, and there is no passing or failing. It simply helps you and your mentor know where to focus your time together.

Online Assessment

What to Expect

Request Marriage Mentoring

Tell us a little about yourselves by filling out our request form. We’ll use that information to help match you with a mentor.
Request Mentoring

Complete the Assessment

Before your first meeting, you'll receive a link to complete the assessment.
Online Assessment

Meet Your Mentor

Your first meeting is a chance to get to know your mentor, share your story, ask questions, and begin talking through your assessment results.

Meet and Prepare Together

Most couples meet with their mentor for approximately four to eight sessions, usually weekly or every other week.

Your mentor will guide conversations around your relationship, help you understand your assessment, and give you practical tools you can carry into marriage.

 Prepare for the Wedding

If you would like an Echo.Church pastor to officiate your wedding, let us know as early as possible when you request mentoring so we can talk with you about next steps.

We recommend beginning Marriage Mentoring several months before your wedding so you have plenty of time to move through the process without feeling rushed.

Need Professional Counseling?

Sometimes premarital conversations bring up areas that would benefit from deeper support.

Echo.Church does not provide professional marriage or family therapy. Our pastors may be available for pastoral care, prayer, and spiritual support, but for ongoing or specialized care, we recommend working with a licensed professional counselor.

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